
Fitting in
Kriti
Kriti arrived in Hong Kong in September 2017, following her husband’s banking job relocation. Back in India, she had been a university professor, and she carried that professional confidence with her. “I was pretty sure I could figure it out in Hong Kong as well. I didn’t really worry because I had university teaching experience,” she recalls.
But the reality was harsher than expected. “Moving to a place and coming as a tourist are two different things… especially if you’re a brown person.” Within weeks, her sense of assurance unravelled. “All that confidence went to shit when I came here… The first month of September was horrible. I was like existential identity.”
The structural barriers were immediate. In Hong Kong, teaching requires a registration certificate, meaning she had to retrain despite years of experience. As she pursued work as a NET (Native English Teacher), she found herself at the lowest rung of the hierarchy. “I was the only brown girl… you have to work twice as hard to feel half as good.”The isolation was crushing. “When I was going through all those experiences in Hong Kong when I initially arrived, I was looking for some book like this which could validate my struggle, which could give me some hope… and I could not find anything.” Yet instead of silencing her, the struggle-built resilience.She turned to writing. “I always wanted to share my experiences and stories, but then I realized that no one’s going to give you the mic, you’ve got to pick your mic and tell your story.” That realization became her turning point. She began authoring her own work, recently publishing a book to help others by sharing her journey.
Kriti often describes herself as a "misfit", a teacher who wears her tattoos openly, a woman childfree by choice, someone who doesn’t cook in a culture where women are expected to; A NET teacher in Hong Kong, where schools "prefer Caucasians", and a "brown" expat navigating spaces dominated by whiteness. For Kriti, being a misfit is no longer a burden but a badge. It reframes her struggles, giving her a voice and a lens through which she redefines her life.
